Loving oneself

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#10 Loving oneself

Welcome! I’m Omkar Shinde.

Love of self! A dream or a reality?
To learn the art of loving oneself one must and needs to back to his/her home and dear ones. Certainly it is in our family and in the company of those dear and near to us that we were made to feel that we were someone. Their words, expressions and their very great and wanted. Cherishing our childhood experiences and treasuring the rich heritage of experience made up on loving and dynamic interactions inside the family circle and outside, we can rebuild our selves anew. The positive feedback and the gracious acknowledgements that come our way from friends and peer every now and again are of great worth in helping us to fall in love with our self.
 
Love yourself first, so you know what to deserve.

Taking a closer look at life and at its origin, purpose and significance would prove a great boost to us. A deep awareness that we are not on planet earth by chance but have been created for a purpose in the very image and likeness of god himself cannot but help redouble our love for self. Loving oneself is deep and long process which involve both pain and joy. Pain in the sense that more we discover our hidden dark areas, a sense of anxiety and sadness can overtake us. Joy because discovery of self will lead us to explore the wealth of treasure hidden in each of us. Definitely we all need someone who will accept us unconditionally. Someone in whose presence we can be our self.  Someone who will whisper to us: “yes, I do care for you, I am with you I am on your side, go ahead and bring forth your uniqueness”. And if we are lucky to find someone who is really for us, then, this task of loving oneself becomes a very pleasant and challenging one.

Keep supporting and think to change your and others life. And find better way to live a life.
Thank you
“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.”
-Oscar Wilde

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